In life most people have dreams, goals, and ambitions they want to achieve but the problem and most challenging part is finding them and knowing all the necessary steps needed in order to get what they want.
You’re really getting bored of the 6-12 hours work per day and are thinking of using it for your own business. Your friends are always telling you that you could do for yourself just what you’re doing now for your boss. Why shouldn’t you profit from your ideas instead of making him rich?
You keep thinking about it because you’re aware that you’ll never be financially where you want to be with a weekly or monthly paycheck, but what business would you start? What about the capital?
One thing you need to have in mind is that you don’t have too many time to continue thinking about this, this is the time to assess yourself and your future and it takes some real, down to heart honesty. You want to transform your life for the better, so let’s start.
Are you aware that you have the potential to do and be anything you want in life? People have different impression of the ideal life, and it ranges from obtaining financial freedom to as simple as owning a new pair of jeans. Unfortunately, many fail to reach their ambition because they can’t get a solid, clear picture in their mind of what they desire.
Take the next few days and embark on a fact-finding journey that will be a life-changing experience. Get a written material now and start jotting things down:
STEP 1 – KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT – Be specific in your passions, then focus all your efforts on that particular desire.
Those who always change their minds and those who give up easily when the going gets tough will never get anywhere. If you’re confused and not sure what you really desire in life then these questions are for you:
- What do you want to do with the rest of your life?
- What makes you happy?
- What are you constantly thinking of day and night?
- What makes your heart beat with excitement
- What do you enjoy doing?
- What are your obsessions?
- What things make you jump for joy?
Make sure to write down all your possible answers to the above questions. Write down everything, no matter how silly it seems. Put all your desires on paper that answers any of the above questions.
When you’re done, go back and circle at least five items that interest you the most. Then assess them and choose with your heart, not your mind, the one and only thing worthy to spend all your time and resources on and that brings out the best in you, remember to be sincere about this.
The most important thing to remember, no matter how “pie in the sky” it seems, is to USE YOUR HEART. Others may disagree with you, but you should be firm with what you really want. Others may offer comments or advice, but the final decision is always yours to make. Don’t always live by people’s opinion.
STEP 2- KNOWING HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
Once you’ve discovered what you want in life, the next step is mapping out the necessary steps needed to achieve them in ascending order.
For example, Just imagine wanting to win an Olympic Gold medal. Once you set the goal of wanting to win a gold medal, the next question is, which Olympics? Summer or winter? Then the next question is in which event? Do you want to be a gold medalist in the 100-yards dash, figure skating, water polo or rowing? Once you’ve choosing which event, then study, train, hire a coach, enter smaller events and dedicate yourself to winning.
Remember you only have one life to live. There are no playbacks and you don’t get to do it over. You may not do it right, but at least you’re doing it. Too many lives have been lived in quiet desperation waiting until – until they had saved enough capital, until the children are out of school, until I retire, and they depart this life before “until” ever arrives.
Don’t go to sleep tonight without making a decision on WHAT YOU REALLY DESIRE IN LIFE MORE THAN ANY OTHER THING.
Then spend a few days examining how to make it possible and make a living at it. Begin living every day as if it were the last day you had – never leaving anything to be done latter.
There will always be bills, things will always break down eventually and need replacing, there may be storms and earthquakes and repairs – but there will only be one life for you to live. It can’t be put on “hold/pulse”!
Keep your focus on your goals, be willing to go the extra mile and know you have just as much right to be successful as anyone else does.
The final outcome of your efforts may be in the future, but you’re living each day by taking steps toward that outcome.
What are the strategies you normally use to get whatever you want in life?
Please leave a comment below and tell me what you think
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Philos Mudis says
I think people need more self-discipline to get what they want. If you cannot turn off the TV and write your ebook because there is a great show going on, it will take you awhile to get what you want even if you know what it is and how to get it.
Right?
Nwangene Theodore says
Hi Philos,
I can’t agree more, we all lack self-discipline and concentration at one time or the other
that is why it is always good to avoid all forms of distraction whenever we want to be
productive.
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