This post is written to show you that you are the only one Limiting yourself from achieving what you want in life, no other person but you is capable of transforming your life, your situation and your finances.
Therefore the earlier you stop blaming others for your misfortune, the better for you.
On this note, I want to share this story that happened in one organization with you. One day all the staff of the organization came to work as usual wearing long faces on hearing the sad news.
It was written on the entrance door of all the offices in the company that “yesterday the man holding your success in this company died”.
All the workers were speechless and dumbfounded; some were shading tears while others were grieving. At a point they started wondering who is this that was holding me back in this company. Well at least he died.
Soon the thrilled audience became worried, curious and eager to know who the diseased really is, all the corridors in the organization became crowded and compounded by the confused workers in such a way that security agents were invited to control and calm the environment.
However a corner in one of the rooms in the organization was well dressed which is where the remains of the diseased is being kept for his colleagues to see and pay him their last respect. But to their utmost surprise, everyone that approached the casket became speechless and in a sober state reason being that what they saw is beyond their expectation.
Inside the casket is a very big mirror positioned in such a way that anybody that looks into it could see himself, also beside the mirror is a very broad notice written on a paper that says that “ YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE HOLDING YOURSELF BACK” Finally everyone in the company was shocked, amazed and in a deep sorrow.
Dear Friend, I want to let you know that no one but you is hindering your progress. The world is like a mirror, it gives back to every individual the true reflection of his thought. Your condition cannot change when your family changes, it cannot change when your friends and colleagues changes, when your boss changes or when your tutor changes. It can only change when you change.
Obviously, business and investing are not life and death events, yet to be successful often requires you to choose between the death of the old you and the birth of the new you.
When you want to become a rich person, the poor person inside you had to die.
When you decided to become an entrepreneur, the employee inside you had to die.
We all know that opportunities can be hidden within disappointment. If you see your situation like that and focus yourself to look for opportunities, your problem can be turned into a future that might be better than what you have plan on to begin with. It is very vital to always keep your focus on the positive side of your situation for good reason. That is the number one reason you’ll always come out winning.
Therefore, stop blaming people for your failures, all you need is focus, the right tools, strategies and good mentors around you in other to actualize your dreams. When you fail, don’t give up; continue shooting until target is covered.
As an adult, you should know what kind of life style you want. My point is start planning for it now before its too late.
THANKS
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